How Much Longer Are You Willing to Not Get What You Want?

One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned from surrounding myself with successful people is how to think BIG not just in my business, but in my life as a whole.

In addition to investing in some of the best mentors, coaches and experts, I’ve done a lot of deep work to strengthen my mindset and overcome limiting beliefs.

Here’s what I found out:

You can do anything you want with your life and no one can stop you…but you.

I found out that I can live wherever I want, which is how I decided not to live anywhere COLD again and moved to beautiful Hawaii and now sunny California.

I found out that I can travel the world WHENEVER I want, which is how I’ve been able to visit some amazing countries like Jamaica, Mexico, France, Argentina, England, Indonesia, Italy, Greece, Spain, Thailand, Morocco and Dubai.

I found out that I can attract love and romance in ANY city, which is how I found my boo on the island of Oahu in the middle of the Pacific Ocean.

I also found out that there is NO LIMIT to my income as an entrepreneur, which is how I have been able to grow my revenue from $0 to replacing my 9-5 salary to earning at least 6-figures in my business each year since 2014.

So whenever I talk to women in our Happy Black Woman tribe who tell me their about and dreams, I get excited!

Unfortunately, the next sentence that comes out of their mouth is often very disempowering language.

It typically starts with, “But…”

I can’t…

I couldn’t…

I’m not…

I’m too…

I can’t afford to…

I don’t have enough…

I don’t have much of a choice…

I don’t have a say in the matter…

The economy is too bad right now, so…

All these phrases do is STOP the flow of abundance in its tracks.

They close the door to brainstorming ideas that will actually help you move forward.

That’s why my response will never be to agree with you.

I will NEVER co-sign your perceived limitations.


Instead, I will always ask you some variation of this simple question:

How much longer are you willing to NOT get what you want?

Because in the wise words of Tony Robbins, one of the best motivational speakers of our time:

“The only thing keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself about why you can’t have it.”

Is it time to rewrite your story?

I want to help you if you’re ready to become a bigger version of yourself.

I want to work with you if you’re ready to become the kind of woman who doesn’t say things like “one day” or “someday” or “I wish I could, but I can’t.”

As you may know, I’ve been building a conscious community filled with ambitious black women who want it ALL and are willing to do what it takes to manifest the big vision they have been given for their lives.

This is my invitation for you to join over 100 of us in Atlanta next month:

And if you find yourself looking at the registration page saying “I wish I could attend,” then that’s EXACTLY why you need to be with us!

Your mindset needs to shift and your actions need to change so you can start seeing results.

But that’s not going to happen if you don’t make it a priority to surround yourself with like-minded women who can lift you up with their love and support.

Join us.

You’ll see.

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